Sure your mother & father have both rested in very good places.....I always walk across the Happy Valley cementry(Stubbs Rd there's an exit my ex- college is Lingnan) There you can walk down all the way to Causeway Bay & it's true very famous people stay there & it's really amazing sometimes to look at the graveyards & read the discriptions of the person buried there.....Some can be dated back to over 130 yrs ago! What kind of people are they but they all rest down now.......
Most important is: Live at the moment, do good, be good to yourself & your family. It's a miracle to be bonded as family, that close ......